Throw Out "The Golden Rule" If You Want Any Happiness With Women

This is a tough pill to swallow.

For basic moral functioning in a society, it's hard to beat the simplicity and succinctness of the Golden Rule.

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

It just sort of rings true, doesn't it?

Well yes - if you are talking about other men.

It ensures limitations to violence, a bendt towards reasomableness and restraint, and the kind of philosophical justice we all crave - as men.

But when you start applying this rule to women, everything goes awry - and quickly.

First of all women don't care about 90% of the things you care about, especially justice, morality, and philosophy. They have their own versions of these things, which they sure as hell aren't going to tell you about - because they are neither just, moral, nor philosophically cogent. At least for your male mind.

So when you treat women along the lines of your preferred weltanschauung, they will smile along acknoledgingly, while they quietly plot ways to take advantage of your foolery and extract as much as they can from you while you are busy obeying your own stupid principles. That's what her morality tells her to do.

Because women don't want you to treat them like you want to be treated. You don't want to be degraded, you won't want to be made to bend to someone's firmer hand, you don't want to be teased, humiliated, and forced into submission.

But believe me she does.

She also doesn't really want to be "respected," at least not in the way that you do.

Her opinions aren't well reasoned nor rigorously worked through. In many cases, they aren't even hers. Why should you care about them? She doesn't strive for consistency, mastery, or higher achievment. Why are you forcing yourself to "respect" her for any of it?

She doesn't want to be treated as an equal or with deference or even with tolerance of her faults. She wants to feel like she can look up to you, i.e. she wants to feel inferior. She will revile at you giving deference to her (for the same reason), and beyond that, she wants you to judge her more than anything because that is the only way she will grow and inprove to better reflect your superior light.

So be very careful here. The Golden Rule is a great rule of thumb - when it comes to other men (and even there it breaks down at the edges and when real power is confronted).

I'm a little rusty on my Aramaic, Hebrew, and Greek, but I would bet dollars to Baklava that the OG version of this quote referred to "others" in the masculine, which of course can be taken as masculine AND feminine but, in point of fact is only an accurate statement when applied to the former alone.

So let this take the burden off your shoulders, Judeo-Christian believers. Use the gendered translation (that I am at least alleging is true) and free yourself from the yoke of responsibility to treat women the way you want to be treated.

Unless you want to be on your knees taking a faceful of cum after licking your hairy asshole for a half an hour all the while withstanding a barrage of degrading dirty talk, then these rules do not apply to you. Rest easy.

Instead, adopt what I call the "Silver" rule, which is to treat women the way they want to be treated. And enjoy it.

Let them feel inferior to your dominating mastery, let them never have to cough up an opinion they need to conjure up for themselves, let them experience the dearth of moral center that enables the fullest flowing of their emotions to great and cruel things alike. Remove all responsibility from them, allow them to have their secrets, their ridiculous schemes, and their dramatic indignation. Give them all these useless (to you) psychological baubles, and they will treat YOU the way YOU want to be treated in turn. And yes that includes all the sexy behaviors your momma told you not to want but in your balls you sure as hell do. Believe this and be ready.

Because as much as they don't want to be treated like another man, they know that you DO. That you want to be treated better than them, with more respect than them, with more deference than them, and they are HAPPY to give you everything your cock desires once you treat them in the way THEIR deepest hearts desire.

(Note: Women have their own golden rules between themselves. But they are given not in scroll or stone tablet form but in sideways glances, tones of voice, and various forms of withholding and conversational inuendo. You don't need to understand them (although you really should), you just need to let them have it without pretending that they want to be beholden to the Golden Rule that guides you and your more rational brethren. They have their own values, prioritiees, and sine qua nons. Let them. Your Gold has no purchase here.)

So enjoy the interplay between the Golden Rule and the Silver Rule, because you need them both in society. But of the two, the Silver is by far the more salient, because it works both in "society" and when there is no society to enforce your delusions of morality. Then it is even more important. . .and we are never more than a few credit defauls swaps away from such a world, so you better be ready for it when it come.

In the meantime, Do Unto Other Men as You Would Have Other Men Do Unto You is a pretty good (and probably historically accurate) tweak that will serve the whole world far better than its inadvertendly 2nd Wave Feminist mistranslation. Make your adjustments and carry on in the enjoyment of doing unto her what would gross you out in your soul if it were done unto you - but is every bit exactly what she wants you to do.